
If you're like many people, the time you plan what you're going to wear to your reunion is longer than the time you spend at the reunion. You flip through magazines. You look through your closet. You go shopping and come home with a few outfits. Then you take back the outfits you decide against. For an easier way to go about looking your best, take these tips to heart.
Fashionable, Not Flashy
Fashion seems to recycle itself every twenty years. But here's the rule: if you were young enough to wear it the first time around, it's probably too young of a look for you today. It's smart to be fashion forward, just choose clothing that is age-appropriate. A good question to ask yourself is: Do I look fashionable or flashy? The first answer that comes to mind will likely be the first impression of those attending your reunion. Another tip is to ask a trusted friend the same question.
How Much Jewelry?
Everyone wants to look successful. And too, everyone has their own idea of what success looks like. If your reunion includes a formal dinner, then wearing diamond earrings and a diamond necklace is very appropriate. But if it's a bonfire on the beach, diamonds will look out of place. Remember, people are coming to see you, not your possessions. If your jewelry makes you feel conspicuous, it's best to leave it at home. You'll feel more relaxed, which will let your confidence come shining through.
Embrace Your Changes
Everyone has changed since high school. So, relax. You may have lost a little hair, put on some weight, and have a few laugh lines. But remember, the good news is your friends have too. Showing you're comfortable with these changes is what's important. Don't worry about hiding a balding head under a baseball cap or wearing pants just to hide varicose veins. While going the opposite extreme—wearing tight-fitting clothing to showcase a muscle-toned body—is not smart either, know you can let go of any expectations of needing to look the way you did way-back-when.
The final word on dressing for your reunion:
Wear something that makes you feel great and plays up your best features. And, if you're planning to wear something new, test-drive it first. Break in those new shoes and try sitting down (and bending over) in your new outfit. Above all, make sure you're well rested. It's the best way to cultivate a calm and charming presence that, along with a knockout smile, will attract people from clear across the room.![]()
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